Dianne Wood . DOB. 1964 DoD. To be confirmed! Lived in sin for 9 years then got married 1999! Still married! Love it!
For me....it's all about you and what you want. It is your wedding. You choose how, when and where you want it. So long as it is LEGAL (that's where I advise you) I"m in. Being married is wonderful. There is an un-describable feeling about tiring that knot. Even after many years of being together. Just do it!